The other day, I wrote a blog post about the marriage advice I’ve compiled over the years. I didn’t think people would want to hear advice from someone who hasn’t been married THAT long, but I was wrong. It was one of the most popular things I’ve written this month. Naturally, folks had some other advice they wanted to share.

My sister tells me that, in addition to the advice Gram gave me, she also told my brother-in-law, “Be good in bed.” (Insert huge blushing emoji here). It’s a little hard to know how one should take that from your new wife’s grandmother, but it is in line with Dan Savage’s…